hi guys i am working dreamwever , and loading video using the following tags
for my videos
<object width="425" height="344">
<param name="movie"
value="http://www.youtube.com/v/7otMcdcngms&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1" />
<param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" />
<param name="play" value="false" />
<embed src="Marjawan Alhamari.wmv" width="425" height="344"
type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" play="false"
movie="http://www.youtube.com/v/7otMcdcngms&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1"></embed>
</object>

Now the problem is that when i load the page it plays autostart the video,
How can i change it to manual playmode like if i opent the page the video file
should not play i have to click on play to play the file ,,
so this tags is autistart ,,i dont know how to change it to manual start
not auto ,,

please help ,thanks